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Prologue to making a hotwife

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This prologue explains and defines terms used to describe men who allow their wives to fuck other men.



The paraphilic act of candaulism can be defined as a husband or boyfriend that entertains and enjoys the act of sexually exposing his partner, or images of his partner to other people for his voyeuristic pleasure. Thus he is someone who wants to show off his partner to other people.

A Hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relations outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband, who himself doesn’t have affairs. Hotwifing is the wife-sharing arrangement or act of carrying out such affairs and is not exclusive to the husband watching. Meaning, the wife is permitted to engage in sexual relations with other men on her own without being accompanied by her husband.

These terms are constantly being redefined and the latest definition of this is called a “Stag,” versus a “Cuck.” A stag usually assists in choosing who their partner will have sex with and is much more in control of the situation.

A Stag is a dominant husband who encourages his wife to have sex with another in which the man shares his wife with other men in his presence for erotic encounters, yet he is a straight hetero alpha and not seeking any bi play nor humiliation and the wife in no way demeans or degrades him. He is a dominant man who encourages his wife to have sex with others in his presence.

A vixen is a submissive woman who is having extramarital sex with the encouragement and full knowledge and support by her dominant husband.

The word cuckold or cuck is as old as the institution of marriage itself. Historically a cuckold was a man who was married to an adulterous wife. It is defined as a man with an unfaithful wife. Traditionally, a cuckold was an object of scorn among the community and was looked upon as someone who could not satisfy his wife’s sexual appetite. It has only been during this last century that the term cuckold has come to take on a different meaning.

One definition of the word cuckold is where the husband is submissive and often subjected to taunting and humiliation from his dominant female partner while, or after, she has sex with another man. He finds pleasure in watching his wife have sexual relations with another man while he is verbally degraded and humiliated by his wife.

But that definition refers to a man being a cuckold and not necessarily being made a cuckold. The fact is a man does not hold within himself the ability to be a cuckold, as he is made a cuckold by either his wife or by the other man that is fucking his wife. Thus, as with the historical definition, a wife can make her husband a cuckold not only by being unfaithful to him but by her insisting that she have sexual relations with another man. All the while she humiliates him the entire time as she actively participates. It is more about her “cheating” and traditionally involves more submission and humiliation for the husband whose wife is having sex with other people. For example, a wife that makes her husband a cuck derives pleasure by gloating to him about how the guy she is fucking is more capable with pleasing her in ways that he cannot, specifically due to the smaller size of his penis.

Contrary to these definitions I personally have reserved the following explanation for the term cuckold. It is the opinion of many, myself included, feel that the explanation of cuckolding is not cuckolding unless one is aroused by the emotional or psychological satisfaction of being HUMILIATED by your wife having sex with someone other than you and indicating that your abilities are sexually inferior to the “bull” that she is fucking.

So, what is the correct term for a dominant man who enjoys and receives sexual pleasure by watching his wife partake in sexual relations with another, and a wife that is willing to fuck another man for her husband’s pleasure? Simply put, the husband is referred to as a Stag and the wife is referred to as a Vixen. However both of them combined are called ‘Compersionist.’

Compersion means to find true sexual satisfaction and genuine happiness from another person’s sexual excitement or joy. It’s also defined as a positive feeling felt by a husband that originates from watching his wife become intimate with someone other than himself. In the context of consensual non-monogamous relationships, compersion can refer to the happiness one finds in their partner’s pursuit of sexual and romantic intimacy with others. It’s often used among consensually non-monogamous people as a reason why husbands enjoy sharing their wives, or it’s something they learn to appreciate along the way to help them battle potential jealousy.

To put it simply, some husbands call it cuckolding because they take pleasure in their wives being pleasured and humiliating them accordingly. And some refer to it as hotwifing because they are married to a woman who has sexual relations outside of the marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband. And the Hotwife couple can set different standards and rules with regard to making a hotwife. Such as she is not permitted to have relations with another without her husband present and he must be involved in some fashion or another.

I am a Stag. I have always enjoyed being sexually aroused from watching my wife be pleasured by having sex, or engaging in sexual activity with another man, while remaining in full control by participating in choosing the other man. This should by no means be considered cuckolding. Nevertheless, everything except cuckolding is considered a very loving state of mind for both the husband and the wife for the fact that it takes an incredible amount of love and compassion to genuinely be excited for your wife as she has sex with another man with her husband watching. And it takes just as much love and compassion for a wife to agree to and allow other men to fuck her for the sole purpose of pleasuring her husband.

I was a Stag married to a Hotwife Vixen for a little over eight years and I very much enjoyed when she eventually allowed other men to fuck her for my pleasure. Since my wife and I met outside of the lifestyle, I felt that I had a lot of convincing to do if I were to persuade her to not only desire to fuck another man but that we would both enjoy it separately and together in our own way. I thoroughly researched what I thought at the time to be a strange and unusual desire of wanting to watch my wife be intimate with another man before I even considered bringing it up to her and as it turns out that this desire is very common and not that unusual. I imagined she would never agree to doing such a thing because sex to her was enjoyable but not that important and I believed that her traditional core values absolutely prevented her from participating in such a thing. However, she did share with me that when she was younger, she once participated in a MFF, so maybe I’d be able to convince her nonetheless.

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  • Reply Milky ID:202ren3xia

    Sounds more like a fricken College term paper than a horny story I couldn’t get past the first few paragraphs sorry

    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      Because that’s the prologue doofus! LOL. It’s for informational purposes from the author. Just explains the differences between all of the terms associated with couples. You should continue to Part I, I know you won’t be dissapointed

  • Reply BRITNEY ID:1df0k80uvhff

    I’ll never tell !! I really love flirting with you pretty toes ! not to many people here like to interact !! by the way why is your handle name pretty toes ? Do you paint and have them pedicured professionally? Britney

    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib


    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      Ewwww, no that’s too gay for me! Of course I get pedicures every month. They massage my legs and knees, remove the dead skin from my heels, hot towel my legs, penile oil rub, moisturize my legs, then rub the hot oil onto them. I love the way the oil makes my feet and toes look darker and so much healthier.

      Then to top it off I do three coats of gel clear coat and they look very pretty after they are finished with them. I swear I’m not a fag either! I just think that every man should take better care of himself especially when gifted with a beautiful woman who has soft skin, pretty toes, no hair, knobs to grab ahold of, pretty faces, nice hips, fat ass with a cellulite when her skin is pushed together, soft luxurious hair.

      Women smell good, feel good, look good, taste good and they hear good too. LOL Didcha like that? How about that oil rub that I snuck up there in that there sentence. I figure, since I’m naming all of these services that she’s gonna done to me, why not throw in a little penile action, yeah?

      And men, well, men are disgusting pigs. They stink, have dirty asses, smelly crotches, nose hairs, ear hairs, hairy legs, armpits, chests, backs, asses etc. I have no idea and I do not understand how and why a beautiful woman would ever get naked, rub herself on top of him and allow him to jam a member of his body inside of her?

      BTW. My exwife always said that I have the prettiest legs and feet for a man and if you supply me with an alternative method of sharing, I will send you a copy of my feet, toes and legs, little’ lady.

  • Reply BRITNEY ID:1df0k80uvhff

    Ha ! Ha ! You are so wrong pretty toes ! I’ll give you a hint ! how about I’m a Gen X ! Good guess pretty toes . I just love wearing vintage lingerie because all the guys drool over me every time I’m at work or going out shopping ! now you can’t fuck me ! Britney

    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      Ok, then born in 1970 and you are 53 years old

  • Reply Clair ID:jtp3mrdfqb4

    Another fantastic story Britney, you got this lady wet again.

    • BRITNEY ID:1df0k80uvhff

      Thank you Clair , which story was it ? Britney

  • Reply BRITNEY ID:1df0k80uvhff

    Well pretty toes! which category am I ! a teen or a early twenties girl or a milf or cougar or a mature lady ? And if you guess right I will put my open bottom girdle on with my gray stockings attached to the garter straps of my girdle and bend over in front of you and let you fuck and pound me until I squeal ! Oh ! just because I wear a girdle doesn’t mean that I’m a old lady pretty toes ! Britney

    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      Well, you used words such as lady, girdle, stockings, booze, pantyhose and garter straps. I remember my mother wearing pantyhose back in the 70’s. Also, you had a difficult time relating to all the definitions of an open marriage, as you had referred to it, but the term was popularized in 1972 with the release of a book called, “Open Marriage.” If I am correct, the term ‘fresh,’ which you used in a comment to me originated in the late 1920’s Speakeasies to the 1950’s. In the 50’s, it was used along with the words shucks, stinker, swell, and beatnick. These words quickly faded out of use during the hippie love movement of the 60’s and each term was replaced accordingly if you will. Shucks turned to the word shit. Stinker turned to the word asshole. Swell turned to the word High. And beatnick turned to fucking hippie or just hippie. Most people born after 1975 to 1980 have never heard of these terms and for good reason. So, with all of that and your usage of the word fresh as being a dead giveaway for me, my best educated guess is that you are a post baby boomer, born between 1948 and 1952, which would make you in your mid to late 60’s. How did I do darlin’?


    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      I meant mid to late 70’s between 72 and 77 years old.

  • Reply Bob ID:1d4uq39lfq6s

    Loved this first part!!! I guess now the hot sexy information will cum. I’m looking forward to it, you big cock father!!!!!
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  • Reply BRITNEY ID:1df0k80uvhff

    Your so fresh pretty toes !! If you punish me please put a ball gag around my head so no one hears me screaming and squealing as you shove that cock all the way into my womb !! Britney

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    • prettytoes ID:14grun306ib

      Britney, you are giving away your age and you don’t even realize it! LOL

  • Reply BRITNEY ID:1df0k80uvhff

    I’m so sorry pretty toes I don’t email anyone ! I do like it when a strong man puts me over his lap and lifts my dress and pulls both my panties and pantyhose down and spanks my ass hard open handed until my ass cheeks turn almost purple ! it makes my pussy so wet and then I will be ready for your cock to fuck me , because I’m such a naughty girl !! Check out some of my stories pretty toes ! Britney

    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      I most definitely will. I understand about not emailing people. You might run into a pervert or something like that. After your first spanking I would never reward your negative behavior with a positive reward. It wouldn’t be until you stand up from your spanking, ignore that you were just disciplined and begin to act out as a brat wherein I would be forced to pull down your panties, and spank you little ass again until you cried. Then I would have no choice but to punish you by shoving my hard cock into you fucking you over and over until you enter the ‘zone’

  • Reply BRITNEY ID:1df0k80uvhff

    I hope you don’t mind pretty toes but I call this an open marriage and I love how you defined everything ! I don’t care for cuck husbands , I want to be dominated by a husband as he picks the guy who will fuck me ! Britney

    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      Yes there are many titles for this type of relationship but what she never said to me was anything that made me appear weak or make me feel like a sissy or a cuck. She never said, “Your dick is so much smaller then his and I wish you could fuck as good as he fucks me.” That’s what you say to a cuck. She simply stated the true fact which was she was going to be stretched out and I was going to fall in and that is exactly what happened. LOL!

      But I am a very large, muscular dominating man and no woman and her fuck friend would ever get away with attempting to humiliate me or make me feel lower than I truly am. I was in full control of whomever fucked my wife at every moment throughout. My presence alone demands respect. Seriously, when I walk into a room, I naturally am the type of man that everyone looks to for guidance, support, and leadership. I dominated her in a loving manner, never lording it over her in a mutual offer and receive relationship. But when she was a little brat, damn if I didn’t bend her over my knee and spank her ass until she cried.

      If we were married and you were willing to be my hotwife I would respectfully attempt in every way possible to discourage in an attempt to change your mind. I’d do this lovingly in a caring manner until I am satisfied that you desire to pleasure me by allowing another man to fuck and pleasure you. If I didn’t know any better and we mistakenly got married and you indicated that you want to be a hotwife and you’d like to fuck another man other than me, I’d divorce your ass so quickly and leave you by the curbside your head would spin.

      I you’d like to read more regarding this Britney, email me

  • Reply Cappy ID:2pdvucf0v1

    An absolutely perfect description.
    Thank you for sharing this.

    • PrettyToes ID:14grun306ib

      I didn’t think anyone would actually read a prologue without any graphic scenes in it! LOL!