Need Advice – is this rape?
My boyfriend and I have been together since I was 14 and I love him but sometimes he does something bad to me and I really need advice
Hi!! I’m not sure how to word this or who to tell but I want advice. My boyfriend is a few years older than me and we have been together since I was 14. He was my first and he takes great care of me, especially in bed. He’s very gentle and sweet, always tells me he loves me and recently on my 17 birthday we moved into an apartment together. It has been a dream come true, we do everything together and it has truly brought us closer. My boyfriend is 21 now and he started to drink.. Not often but maybe once a week? And when he drinks he gets hammered and then he passes out in our bed in just his shorts. Not a big deal though, I just climb in bed with him later on and fall asleep beside him.
The first time it happened was a a few weeks ago, I woke up with his body pressed against my back and he was breathing heavily, almost panting. I was still a pretty small girl and he was definitely big enough to keep me pinned and unable to move. My face was shoved in the pillow and I could feel him pulling on my pajamas in a way he never had before, pulling my bottoms down past my butt and with absolutely no preperation at all, and no condom for the first time since we met, shoved his entire dick inside of me.. I cried out into the pillow but I couldn’t fight back as he started to hump me aggressively, fucking me so much rougher than I had ever experienced before. He was still panting and groaning, grunting near my ear for what felt like a half hour before he slammed his hips into mine, finishing inside of me and collapsing on my back. It was unlike anything I had experienced, the feeling of his hot cum leaking inside of me, filling me to the brim and being held in place by his heavy body still on top of me..
A few minutes went by of his heavy breathing and I was crying into my pillow when I realized he was lightly snoring. He had passed out again but this time on my back, with his dick buried inside me. The sad part is it kind of felt like he was cuddling me, holding me even, and I ended up falling asleep with my cheek pressed against the tear stained pillow.
The next morning when I woke up to his work alarm I was laying on his chest, my pajamas were on properly, and his shorts were back on. It just looked like a normal morning, he was still asleep and looked completely unbothered, until he heard the alarm and woke up swiftly. He smiled when he saw me awake, turning off the alarm and leaning in to kiss my head, acting completely normal. I stared at him for a second in shock, leaning into his gentle touches and sweet words. He asked me how I slept and told me I looked beauitful as he did every morning before getting up for work.. I just stayed in bed, wondering if I had dreamt the entire thing.
Until it happened again, the following weekend when my boyfriend got drunk and passed out. This time when I woke up he was alreasy inside of me, once again my entire body pinned to the bed underneath him. I didn’t fight back this time, I just wanted it to be over, even though it hurt so bad and was nothing like the romantic sex I was used to. Once again he finished inside, followed by almost immediately passing out. I cried less this time and went to sleep with him, waking up absolutely normal once again.
I get so anxious whenever I see that he bought alcohol and we have started to argue a little bit over it because he acts like he genuinely doesn’t remember raping me and thinks I am just nagging him for having a drinking problem or something. I love him and I need him so I am scared if I push him he will leave me so I stopped arguing about it.
Has anyone else experienced this? My boyfriend is so loving and sweet he would never hurt me on purpose. Is this rape? Please comment and let me know your thoughts
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Yes, thats exactly what it is. Having said that, its only going to get worse as time goes on. Tell him he had 2 options. 1, stop drinking period end of story. Or 2, leave and don’t look back! If you allow him to hurt you like that, even if he’s the most loving guy on earth, obviously when he’s drinking he’s not🤷🏼. But if you keep allowing him to hurt you, it’ll become normal. And that’s when you’re really going to get hurt cause eventually, it’ll grow into hitting you when you don’t want it or do something he doesn’t like. Then it’ll grow to happen when he’s sober. And eventually, thats all you’ll have is a monster that’s always hurting you for whatever reason he justifies doing it with. If dude won’t stop drinking to keep from hurt you, then he doesn’t love you and by the time you realize that the only reason you’re there is cause its juat habit, it’ll be to late! Seriously though, get away from him asap if he won’t stop drinking before something happens that you can’t take back and sorry won’t fix.
He is raping you girl, try telling him to stop drinking and maybe the rape would stop.
Yep it’s rape, you should probably see a professional tho not a porn site
Who cares if it’s rape or just a lovely rough fuck? You’ve got a real man for a boyfriend. Just keep cumming and enjoy!!
Yes it might be classed has rape asked your boyfriend does he remember what happened the night before if he does it again if he says yes then it’s rape had you didn’t consent to it.
you are a woman and you belong to whatever man currenly claims you. i use to get my 16yo highschool girlfriend drunk all the time so i could rape her ass! she learned to submit and even accepted when i invited her little sister over to get the same. gt them both drunk, the raped them both up the ass all night! after a month, my buddy joined in and we would anally gangrape them both!
No it’s not rape since you are a girl
Whenever he is drunk then dont get in bed with hin
I guess he’s been watching lots of filthy porn and wants to try out some rough rape stuff on you. Just go with the flow and ENJOY!!
Not really because u knownwhats going to happen when he’s drinking. And you still go to bed with him. Drinking will not just go way. But most likely get worse. You have to do something now. Or bite the bullet from now on. Love or no love is it worth it
No it’s not
Yep. Rape.
Rape human made up word it’s just sex get over it
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Now Leave Your Comment… Yes that is rape
It’s kind of rape act,make he is doing that drama of being drunk,
Maybe he has some fantasy like that to
U both need to talk abt it
You’re young. But its time to learn. Theres sex and theres a good satisfying fuck. Most woman will only experience the slow romantic sex. Some will experience the powerful and energetic fuck. Once a woman experiences a powerful energetic fuck its just a matter of time before she will want more of it.
Also…when someone drinks they shed their inhibitions and do what they actually want to rather than what others want them to.
The fact that he took U like an hungry beast rather than some other bitch is a clear indication that he lusts after you. Be grateful.
Thank you for your comment!! I really appreciate your advice. Youre right Im glad he took me instead of some other girl lol
You will notice your body craving for rough stuff from time to time. When that urge to be handled like a raggdoll comes up then give him his drink and enjoy the ride.
Also try a bit of public fun to get ur adrenaline going. Like mall chagerooms or cinema theatre etc. Your orgasms will be more intense.
My email is [email protected] plz email me I really appreciate your advice!!
Guaranteed 110% that you are not a female. Id imagine that fat bald somewhere over 45 living in parents basement, or hidden from your wife that has no idea you’re into this stuff would be a much better and descriptive name for you 🤷🏼
Not really, it is just a new experience for you. You are in a relationship because you love each other.
How about talking about it?
Moreover the way you describing it suggests that you like his brute dominance over your petite body.
I feel guilty because I have never been through anything like that but I think I do like it I just don’t know how to talk to him about it and I have no one to go to for advice but I think youre right that it is just a new experience..
Anonymous if you are truly a female seeking advice then leave ur email
No baby girl! Its not juat a new experience, and thats not love! Get out before it gets worse or someone gets worse than hurt. Js,
you’re on the wrong site asking for advice icl. There’s too many weird people on here that are literally into rape. but i suggest to break up with him and stay far away from him.
Yes this is rape, but tbh i wish it could hsppen to me. We’re even the same age!!
R U fucking stupid. if U feel like it is rape then why in the fuck R U in the relationship Idiot. He is a little buzzed and I can not believe U r Thinking it is rape. U r A fucked up Woman as is all the rest of these idiots. U r Just with the wrong person and deserve a real man that appreciates a woman orgasm for real. hah! get a real man and quit complaining and enjoy U R life. U R his wife and NO it is NOT RAPE. if U think That U need a different man then get IT!.
PS. Story ok but it could use less wining and more fucking.
I admit that was pretty insensitive girl. It sounds like U R boyfriend is falling down a road that should not be traveled. I am not sure it can be considered rape but it seems awfully close. Alcohol does weird things to some people and some get real mean and some get real happy. If he continues on his present course it will only get worse. Eventually you will get hurt and I hope you get away from him before this happened.
It’s rape if it isn’t consensual. Doesn’t sound like you’re giving him permission or even enjoying it. It would be justified to break up with him. Best of luck!
Of course he’s drunk raping you. I would suggest being awake when he gets home and sucking his cock that might satisfy everything he needs or of course find a way to enjoy being raped offer your ass you love it
Bro shut the fuck up your a disgusting piece of shit, this is rape and you need to leave him find somewhere safe and avoid him
Rape is rape its unjustifiable, its a disgusting act. You need to leave and find someone who treats you with respect sober and inebriated
just like Danny said, you need to satisfy him! you are a fuckdoll, nothing more. my teen girlfriend knows this, and when i come home, either by myself, with friends, or with strangers, she knows her jobs is to submit her body and holes to us as cumdumpsters to use. just over the labor day weekend, i brought home my long time buddy, and two bros we met at the bar. they all had girlfriends, but were out on a boys night out. we spent the rest of the night drinking, doing blow and hatefucking my girlfriends teen ass! its always raw, and she took all their loads up her ass! as we used her as a fuck doll all over the house, we degraded her, and they commented how her ass fels soo good, way better that their gf’s pussys. most of their gfs also wouldnt take anal. she did well, took it without a fights, and milked several loads up her ass.
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damn i did the same to my 16yo girlfriend! turned her into an an slave for me and my buddies!
Umm, absolutely not! Sex is supposed to be fun for both ppl, not forced on one for the pleasure of the other. Theres pervs, then there’s disgusting pieces of shit that somehow thinks that rape is fun in some totally ass backwards banjo picking kinda way. As for the rest of the reply comments. “My teen girlfriend”? Total bullshit lol. Nigga please, if you any of you had a gf at all, you wouldn’t be reading this shit in the first place. That awkward moment when you’ve told so much bullshit that you actually start to believe your own bullshit lol 🤣.