So, You Want To Be Raped
What you need to think about if you think you want raped.
DISCLAIMER – These are only my thoughts and opinions. I am not telling anyone what to do or not do. You go be you.
Let’s get a few things straight about rape. It is not a sexual act, it is an act of violence. Rape is where you have no control and the person inflicting it is not necessarily even wanting sexual pleasure but the thrill of controlling their victim and hurting them physically and mentally.
Lots of people have ‘rape’ fantasies, both straight and gay and even with animals, but they don’t really have a fantasy about being truly raped. What they have is an erotic fantasy about being controlled and dominated in a safe space. This is very different from rape. In many cases this is a desire for seduction to an extreme.
There are people that do honestly want raped however. These are people who usually have other problems that create an inferiority state of mind. It may because of their body type or physical or mental abuse that’s a separate or are suffering. The answer for these people is not rape but counseling and an understanding of what a healthy relationship is.
Then there are people who very much understand what being raped is and desire this. These are a rare group of people who have learned to blend pain and pleasure, both mentally and physically. They seek extreme forms of sex but even then most play smart and use some limits and safety measures.
Fantasy is certainly one thing but the actual event is something completely different. More potentially traumatizing is what comes after has to be dealt with. If you seek to be raped expect that you will get a physical beating. Not a slapping, not a spanking but hit and punched and kicked. You will take a mental meeting. A rapist has to make you submissive and that will linger with you for a very long time and surface when you least expect it.
After you have been raped there will be no cuddling or spooning. In fact to further humiliate you your rapist may simply leave you alone to deal with the extreme trauma that was just inflicted upon you. There is a good likelihood you will have suffered physical damage either from the beating or from the sexual acts of being penetrated. Your jaw may be sore, you may have loose teeth, you may have a broken nose or other brakes or dislocations or sprains or tears.
If you were anally raped your ass probably tore. Few rapists worry about such niceities as lubrication and taking time to stretch you open. Same wititiesh your vaAfter you have been raped there will be no cuddling or spooning. In fact to further humiliate you your rapist May simply leave you alone to deal with the extreme trauma that was just inflicted upon you. There is a good likelihood you will have suffered physical damage either from the beating or from the sexual acts of being penetrated. Your jaw may be sore, you may have loose teeth, you may have a broken nose or other brakes or dislocations or sprains or tears. If you were anally raped your ass probably tore. If you rapists worry about such nicecities as lubrication and taking time to stretch you open. Same with your vagina. You are not going to lubricate while being raped. Your pussy is going to be torn and stretched like you could never imagine and the pain will linger for a long time.
Then there is the question of STDs. If you are female not only will you need to be tested for pregnancy but for both sexes there are a whole variety of diseases, parasites, and other things that you will have to deal with potentially
You are also going to have to deal with the social aspects of it. These at times are traumatizing because they frequently make you relive the rape in your memory. Friends won’t understand, family won’t understand, some will pity you, some will be angry with you, many no longer want to associate and will avoid you.
Many times people who have been raped withdraw within themselves mentally and can no longer manage physical sexual contact afterwards. A smaller percent become hypersexual and seek more and more extreme sexual sensation and pleasure off into the point that they cannot control their sexual desires and it becomes a major obsession of their life.
If you have been raped and want to comment on this post please consider your purpose in doing so. Rather than sharing your trauma in the comments, please seek counseling. If you want to comment and have been raped then tell us how you worked through it and moved past it.
Also, if you are one of those individuals who has a lifestyle that you enjoy being actively raped as part of your sexual life, please post this is a separate story as I am sure that there are many who would enjoy reading it.
Rape is interesting and often erotic fantasy material but before you fully commit to putting yourself in a position in real life where you lose all control and even possibly put your life at risk, please consider the full spectrum of what you are looking at.